After been involved in lengthy debates with feminist, when running out of any logic; I have noticed them ending the conversation with dumb argument of so called “Gender Equality”. To put an end to that argument as well, Dear Feminists here are few equality you can die for.
Responsibility Sharing -Legally
Being a man, there is lot of responsibility he has to own. In case, he is unable to feed his parent or wife, they have full rights to file maintenance cases on him for not owning his responsibilities. Court will order maintenance without any logic, no reasoning and he has to earn and feed them. Whereas there is no such responsibility for women, neither as a housewife nor as a working women, they can deny to support families, they can deny to cook, they can deny to share their salary, and they do not have any responsibility towards their parent or husband. Whereas a son has no right in his parent’s property legally; a women can always ask for 50% property rights in parent’s property which they cannot deny even she doesn’t support them. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Reservations in Public Transports
We men can go and occupy any coach in metro. Yeah believe me any coach, any seat just not the one reserved for women. Only place where we cannot enter and sit is one full coach and 4 seats reserved in each coach for women. So if a man is tired, exhausted or wounded or under high fever and metro is crowded, he has to stand because government feels the need to reserve seats as per gender and not as per need. And if someone is not well and is sitting, he can be asked to get up and give the seat to 18 years old healthy women, even if it is not a reserved seat. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Rape and Molestation
Being a man, doesn’t stop me from getting molested and raped by women. Many countries globally recognize this fact but despite many incidents coming to light, men still have no law to lodge a complaint. A man can be molested and raped by women and still women can roam around freely with no charge. Because if he will go to police, they will laugh; society anyways doesn’t recognize it as crime. So whole life, the male victim has to live with the rape stigma. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Life after marriage
If a man gets abused by his wife physically and mentally, he cannot go to court and police and file a domestic violence case against his wife and in laws. Domestic violence against men is legal in India, in fact you can beat him on roads, lynch him, still no one will ever question you. There will be no case against those women criminals. And if God forbid the man dies unnatural death after marriage, and its family claims that the wife used to harass him physically and mentally and she is the very reason for this death, still police will not register a case and there will be no arrest. On the other hand, a women can even lodge a domestic violence case against her husband and in-laws if they ask her to pass a glass of water which means they treated her as slave. And if she dies after marriage due to any reason like suicide due to forceful marriage by parent and missing her ex-boyfriend, her husband and his whole family will be arrested till proven innocent. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Government and Company Policies
Being a man, he do not get parental leaves after having a baby in all government jobs and majority of private companies. He may have to stay awake whole night to take care of child after coming home from work, he may have to take his child for checkups but he is not liable for a single day paid leave. Whereas we have been hearing, 8 months of paid leaves for women after having a child. Making it clear, that government doesn’t see any role of a father in upbringing a child. They are just ATM machines who need to give money on 1st day of month for child expenses, they also do not have any right to spend quality time with their child. Also men are asked and forced to stretch whereas women employees are requested which they simply deny and then crib for gender pay gap. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Law misuse and punishment in crimes
Now if a man misuse a law, he is punished severely both financially and with jail term whereas if a woman misuse a law which is way high now a days and exposed too still they are exempt. There is no punishment to women for misusing law and screwing the life of other men and women. They can roam around freely and repeat it as well. Globally, for the same crime committed by man and women; women gets lesser jail term in comparison to men, sometimes nil. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Reservation in Jobs
A general category man doesn’t get a job even on merit, he has to struggle through various companies and work as underpaid mostly. And when the majority of Indians are suffering out of reservation to few caste and religion, we are hearing center and state government declaring reservation for women. Even companies going for female recruitment drive, another way to discrimination if not caste and religion, this time it’s gender. And India wants to be super nation where merit doesn’t exist. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
Education and Security
A male child has to now struggle to get admission as girl child get more points. If a family is poor, the girl child can go to school but not the male child who has to legally take care of them under #betibachaobetipadhao. A highly sexist policy but since it is favoring women, there ain’t any uproar. Also if you are a male child, you will not be given any self-defense training in Delhi schools like girl students even when there are high number of male child molestation cases then girls. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
So when a women gets harassed, 10 men will stand for her and will beat the molester. Whereas if a man get molested by women, we never see 10 women coming and standing for him and beating the molester women. Why, because only men are taught to respect women and safeguard her. A women is never asked to respect men and stand for him. Kindly go ahead and grab this gender equality.
The gynocentric society on the name of gender equality has created such a biased environment for men that today a man fears and feels helpless in India. The women in India have got powers with no responsibility and if not timely stopped, the time is not far when men will come on roads and rebel. They will stop paying tax, will deny to protect women and parents. Future of India is uncertain and we can always imagine a civil war when men will stand against social and government structures who have been pushing him to that last point of stretch for being a male.
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